Today I was at Starbucks reading, which is one of my favorite things in the whole world. There is something amazing about sitting with a good book, drinking coffee, and listening to the soft hum of jazz music and conversation in the background. At one point the book I was reading mentioned the Prayer of Jabez, in 1 Chronicles.
Here it is:
Jabez was more honorable than his brothers, and his mother named him Jabez saying, “Because I bore him with pain.” Now Jabez called on the God of Israel, saying, “Oh that You would bless me indeed and enlarge my border, and that Your hand might be with me, and that You would keep me from harm that it may not pain me!” And God granted him what he requested. (1 4:9-10 NASB).
Names meant a lot more back then than they do today. Your identity was synonymous with the meaning of your name. Today we name our children after family members, after people we look up to, out of tradition, etc. But those names seem more like labels: what we write down on documents and what other people call us. Names had a much deeper meaning in Hebrew culture in the Old Testament. Moses’ name meant “drew out.” He was given this name because he was literally drawn out of the water. Ultimately, God would use him to draw the Israelites out of Egypt. Whenever someone called his name, Moses was reminded of where his name came from, and what God was doing through him. There was another man, Joshua, whose name means “God saves.” When Joshua heard his name, he was reminded of God using him to lead the Israelites into the Promised Land after Moses. These men, and many other men and women throughout the scriptures had names that inspired them daily whenever they heard someone address them.
But what about Jabez? How do you go through life everyday, being reminded that your name means “sorrow,” or “pain”? A name like that doesn’t inspire, build up, or encourage, and it doesn’t provoke thoughts of hope and peace. This is similar to our names. No, not the names you and I go by, but names like “Broken. Addict. Failure. Drop- out. Slacker. Sinner.” Prior to a relationship with Christ, these are the labels we feel in our core, much in the same way Jabez felt his name. Here’s the amazing part: God has a new name for us. A new identity. He wants to wipe away the old identity, and embrace us as a new creation. Jabez is not satisfied with his identity. He chooses not to accept being known as “sorrow” or “pain.” Instead he calls on the Lord. “Bless me indeed and enlarge my borders (other translations say territories, or horizons).” Jabez essentially says “I don’t want to live in this broken identity. I want You to broaden my horizons. I am limited in this identity. I want a new identity created by You.” He asks God to hold him in His hand and protect him. And God does it. Out of His love for Jabez, He answers the prayer. We don’t know if God changes his name, or what. All we know is God gives him what he asks. And that’s what God does for us when we come before Him, accepting His son’s sacrifice and acknowledging our broken identities and the need for a new identity in Him. He changes our identity from “Broken. Addict. Failure. Drop- out. Slacker. Sinner,” to “Redeemed. Saved. Rescued. Child of God. Friend of God. Beloved. Forgiven.”
One of the coolest examples of God changing an identity is in Genesis when God wrestles with Jacob. Jacob means “deceiver” and Jacob had certainly lived up to that name. He cheated his brother Esau out of his birthright, and then tricked his father Isaac into giving him a blessing intended for Esau. Before God could use Jacob for the great purposes He had in mind, He needed to change Jacob’s identity. He wrestles with Jacob all night, even though He could easily have won (as evidenced by His ability to dislocate Jacob’s hip with a single touch). But after this, God changes his name to “Israel”, which means “prince”. When he heard his new name, Jacob could now think “prince,” instead of “deceiver.”
What names do you think of as your identity? Broken? Addict? Failure? Drop- out? Slacker? Sinner? There’s a lot more, and I can identify with most of them. Try waking up each morning and facing the day with this on your heart But try this…. remember when you accepted the fact that you are all these things, and that you wanted to have a relationship with God. When you did that, God gave you a new identity. You no longer need to refer to yourself as these things. Instead, when you hear your name, think “Redeemed. Saved. Rescued. Child of God. Friend of God. Beloved. Forgiven.” Now imagine waking up and facing each new day with this knowledge. The day looks brighter, doesn’t it?